Becky G: Cheating & People Pleasing



Join Alex in the studio for an interview with Becky G! For the first time ever, Becky opens up about the state of her relationship, what it was like navigating a public cheating scandal, and the nuance that comes with truly being a strong woman. She also talks about stepping into her father’s role in her family, unlearning people pleasing tendencies, and how there’s always room for more than one woman at the top. Enjoy!

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  1. Parentified kids….it took me so long to develop language around my role as the eldest sibling! I didn't see that maturity as negative…now I'm able to see it as it was.

  2. Love Becky G, but staying with a cheater is NOT the best choice. Once a cheater, always a cheater, I know bc I experienced it in a certain situation. You stay with a cheater and they laugh at you behind your back. I know women who've stayed with cheating husbands only due to financial reasons (which imo is why married men cheat bc they know they got their wives trapped if they're a housewife) but Becky don't need that fool. I get it, she loves him, but staying with someone who hurt you once, shame on them, but if they hurt you again, it's shame on them again but also on you for staying

  3. She is trying so hard to make sense of her staying with a cheater i mean it wasn’t just the cheating or the betrayal he embarrassed you willingly and disrespected you publicly after you got engaged what more do you need in order to leave

  4. i know she said it took a lot of time and energy for her to make that decision and that IT IS her decision, but she's such a sweetheart i feel bad for her 😭

  5. Wow the way Becky spoke was just mind blowing. Never seen her speak in a way that’s so true to herself and identity. It sucks that a lot of people on social media have such an opinion on her life. At the end of the day it’s her life. If he cheated (and maybe I don’t know the whole story and don’t condone that behavior) but people forget people CAN change. And that takes A LOT of work. She chose this path for herself and that is okay, as long as she did it for herself and not by the influence of others all around her. She’s simply saying she is choosing this, and time will only tell if it works out for either of them but to even have that level of self awareness is such a huge part of your growth. Becky it’s awesome you were able to be so open about this because women don’t ever talk about such private moments like these. Not everything is so cookie cutter and people tend to forget that. As women let’s not tear each other down for our actions. Instead lift each other up from those falls. We all make mistakes and one way or another we will all have to learn from them. It’s part of the beauty of what we call life.

  6. I hope I find one day someone who is stupid like her, Jackpot! Girl, if betraying would be forgiveable, the devil would sit next to god instead of being in hell.

  7. This comment section is evidence to a lot of hurt people. Over generalizations and past experiences being placed on her and her story. Its her life. N we all do our best to figure things out as we go. Some people change and some dont. Hopefully for her case hes changed and they can live happily.

  8. Thank you for this video and everything Becky said, I am at a fork in the road in my life (as far as jobs-not cheating but still) I needed to hear these words and stories RIGHT NOW! THANK YOU!!

  9. So happy for Becky!! Breaking free from childhood patterns and roles is the hardest thing. This was never about the guy. It's just a lesson and trigger to wake up. ❤❤❤👏protect your heart

  10. Anybody who stays with somebody who cheated on them has absolutely no self-respect no matter how many times they go to therapy and convince themselves they do. You do not stay with somebody who hurts you in that way. I honestly lost a lot of respect for her

  11. She’s incredibly intelligent, a boss woman, a beautiful fighter and kind!!! Love you Becky! I’m proud of how much you’ve accomplished and how hard you keep fighting for your family and our community!

  12. The fact that she stayed with a dude that showed her who he was and she stayed is so disappointing. She is not empowered as a women period for staying in a relationship she was not made a priority or respected in is crazy. And her seeing herself getting married with this man…who cheated, disrespected her, and belittled her "bad bitch" energy is disgusting. As a first generation-eldest-daughter who went through all that she spoke on 10-fold…I just cant.

  13. Oh goddess everyone needs to stop with the negativity! It’s her life and she is the only one who knows what she’s doing with it just stop talking crap about her already. She’s such a humble person and so kind she’s living her life the best ways she can. She obviously went to therapy and she worked on her decision and I don’t understand how it affects the world! All that matters is what she wants. Becky love you girl you do you! If you are happy that’s all that matters.

  14. Y’all, this is HER journey. She’s gaslighting herself to thinking she’s healing/healed. She’s using all these reasons to justify her staying:
    – She’s going/went to therapy
    – Not listening to the haters
    – She took off her wedding ring/called off the wedding
    – Looking back at when she was able to distance herself from her dad (like she can do hard things)
    – Comparing the spotlight of her heartbreak to the drunken Disneyland thing (different incomparable embarrassment levels btw)
    – Telling herself her experience nothing like her parents (bruh)
    – Telling herself “zero” is coming from a broken home and she’s still learning (and using that to justify staying vs leaving)
    – Staying with him is a statement of “empowerment” against those who told her to leave him (vs actually leaving him)
    – Restating it as “starting over in the relationship” to make it work (bc that’s all she knows)
    – Going through “conscious uncoupling” & using her “new awareness” as a reason to stay (vs realizing the awareness was to make her leave)

    She’s still stuck. She will either stay stuck and that’s her path. Or she will ACTUALLY gain awareness and leave him and ACTUALLY break patterns.

  15. Ella es una artista maravillosa con una presencia y una voz muy poco comunes. Su pareja y ella han dado una lección de cómo afrontar estas situaciones que se dan en casi todas las parejas y que todos tenemos que afrontar tarde o temprano, por parte del otro o de uno mismo. Son personas muy jóvenes, con unas carreras muy complicadas y pasan mucho tiempo separados, estas cosas pasan, lo peor es que es público. Pero ninguno de los dos ha eludido el tema y han sido abiertos y respetuosos. Toda la suerte del mundo juntos o x separado.

  16. 2:17 when she said “how did that become a tradition, with your shows” I said “she’s Mexican at the same time Becky G said “I’m Mexican” 😂 LOVE IT🤍

  17. Ima just say this any loser who cannot and is COMPLETELY INCAPABLE of giving a woman THE RESPECT AND LOVE THEY DESERVE is AN ABSOLUTE DISGRACE OF A MAN/PERSON I normally do not hate people but I hate HATE WHEN IDIOTS LIKE THAT DO STUPID CRAP LIKE THIS

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